Blindfolded Masochistic Training: Developing a Submissive, Masochistic Wife with Limited Sexual Experience. Third year of marriage. Not as lovey-dovey as the honeymoon phase, but my husband is reliable, has a steady income, and is faithful. Fairly happy. But my body remains unsatisfied. I've never once been satisfied with sex with my husband. Amidst this, a friend recommended I meet a guy with a secret SNS account who was trending. Restraints, blindfolds, abandonment play, toys, etc. The countless perverted acts I'd never experienced before made my masochistic nature blossom. ...I can't go back to sex with my husband anymore.