We we’re going to wait until the one year of our relationship before I decided if I was going to have sex with you.  I don’t want to wait and I don’t want to wear this promise ring my step-dad gave me anymore.  I know what I want, you.  In fact I’m going to take this promise ring and toss it away from us so you don’t have to see it.  There is no way I’m going to go another day without knowing what its like to fuck you.