Sex begins in our minds. The “gloryhole” has become an iconic symbol of projection, power, and animalistic hunger for the cock. You could be anybody, and I don’t care, because you are a projection of my desire. For many men, it has felt the safest to express hunger for cock in anonymity. In reality, this dynamic is a kind of headspace that we can create with a fuck buddy or a boyfriend. It’s a powerful kind of role-play that we can stage and enter. Try this with a familiar buddy. Find or make a gloryhole and role play. Use each other’s bodies to access the primal head space where you don’t even care who is on the other side of the wall. This is about you, a cock, and nothing else.