Communicating clearly in bed about our needs and desires helps us set boundaries, allows our partner to engage with us genuinely, and eventually opens the door to great sex. Sex between people is not "magically great " from the beginning. Sex is a dance between our and our partner's needs. "Girlsplaining" implies that this movie is addressed especially to women: Go girls, guide your partner to your sweet spot! Eventually, despite gender and orientation, everyone should feel empowered to speak up. Give yourself a voice and listen carefully.